ABOUT ME
I’m John, a licensed therapist, a relationship coach, and pastor with over 13 years of experience helping individuals and couples navigate life’s challenges. My work focuses on empowering people to embrace their true selves, build resilience, and foster healthy relationships. I educate different audiences around the world about mental health, and as an ordained minister, I’m also passionate about bridging the gap between mental health and faith, normalizing these important conversations within religious communities. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, relationship support, or organizational transformation, I’m here to help you move from where you are to where you want to be.
As a happily married husband and father, I understand the importance of strong, loving relationships and the role they play in personal and professional well-being. My own experiences as a husband and father deeply inform my work and drive my commitment to helping others create the fulfilling relationships they desire.
What's Different About Working w/ Me
With me you're getting "4 in 1":
Clinical – I bring the training and expertise of a licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, grounded in proven therapeutic methods and years of real-world counseling experience.
Pastoral – With over a decade of experience counseling, officiating marriages, and guiding people through life’s toughest seasons, I offer insight rooted in both compassion and biblical wisdom.
Experiential – I don’t just teach principles — I live them. With more than 10 years of experience teaching and leading men, women, and couples, and over a decade as a husband and father, I understand the everyday realities of relationships.
"Let Me Help You Connect the Dots"
I've literally helped hundreds of people date with purpose, marry wisely, stay connected, and avoid divorce.
Married?
- Need tools to create connection in your relationship?
- Want to know how to communicate better and listen with empathy?
- Feeling disconnected from your spouse?
- Feeling like your needs are not being met or understood by your partner?
- Looking for ways to strengthen intimacy?
Dating or Engaged?
- Want to be prepared for marriage?
- Want a deeper understanding of your potential spouse?
- Want to understand Red & Green Flags?
- Unsure how your going to balance your relationship with other areas of your life (e.g., career, family, friends)?
- Would you like personalized strategies to create a loving and fulfilling relationship?
SINGLE?
- Ready to understand yourself, your identity, purpose, and goals better?
- Want the blueprint for healthier, more fulfilling relationships?
- Need help clarifying what should and should not be on your "list" and what men/women want in a s/o?
- Do you need to process the last relationship and what went wrong?
- Noticing repeating patterns in your relationships that you wish you could break?
Yes, I offer individual coaching too
It’s flexible, online, and tailored to your personal goals. Whether you’re navigating relationship challenges, building confidence, or simply ready to grow, I’ll help you push past barriers and move toward the life you want.
